Joining The Dots

Hindsight is probably the first step you take towards learning. If you can’t look back and realize the true meaning of your experiences, life hasn’t really taught you anything yet. If you are going to let things pass you by in life, they might seem as bliss at first but the tests of these unlearnt…

Perfection: A Distorted Reality Or A Strive For Consistency?

“Nobody’s perfect!” This one  is an extremely subjective statement. Everybody has their own parameters to judge perfection levels. Sometimes people consider that anyone who achieves their set standards of perfection to be successful. But perfection doesn’t set benchmarks for success or failures. The sense of victory when a certain definition of perfection is achieved gives…

Wake Up and Smell the Coffee…

Wallowing in haves and have-nots is the easiest and the most convenient thing to do. The next most obvious step we take when we find ourselves in a difficult situation is to start looking for a scapegoat on whom we can shoulder the blame on. When it’s about time you wake up and smell the…

The Tensed Past Tense

Regret is possibly the most strongest of all emotions, it’s not always easy to deal with things that can’t be undone or redone. And the most damaging of all is when you don’t know why things turned out the way they did, that too with no warning. In hindsight, everything is too plainly obvious, but…

The Paradox called Life

The two most essential things that most people consider to be a wholesome life is to have expectations and then fulfilment of these expectations, that too quickly, using the least possible efforts. Everybody wants another person to care about their feelings, but they are usually too caught up with themselves. That basically leaves no room…

Coming of Age: A Decade in Time

The first decade of the new millennium was a realization as I stepped of the comfort of school life and structured learning into the big bad world. Everything that I have to show for myself, I earned in these ten long years, right from my degrees to my new family life. Whether for better or…