Sometimes, the food that you eat is as good as what comes complementary. No doubt it makes the main dish taste better, but at times it is delicious just by itself. That’s pretty much how the civil society works too. You meet some people who season your life, some that are welcome additions, and others that leave a bad taste in your mouth because you experimented with wrong flavor combinations. Then there are a few that are good for you, with you and without you as well. It’s not important to find our appallams (poppadom) in life, but its better to be one for yourself. That said, you don’t need to be liked by everyone, start by liking yourself, the rest can take care of themselves.